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Had it with Negativity?
If you've had it with Negativity - Step Away from it & Step Up to a better place. Negativity - yours and your tolerance for others - it's your choice. Yes …
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Yes, we cry out for help...
When Emotional work gets too heavy, we cry out for help. Using the Transactional Analysis “Parent- Adult -Child Model”…and some facts-of-life thinking: when…
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When Egoic Wings Flap Out of Control
My work is more important than everyone else's. With elevated mind I attack my business with lightning-quickness. My superior insight-gifts enable me to…
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Personal Strength is the Heart of personal Drive
Dan Pink wrote about 3 Drives: Biological Drive Reward and Punishment Drive To direct our own lives, to extend and expand our capabilities, and to make…
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A Little Argument Against Being Negative
When you focus on the negatives, you snuff out other peoples candles. What's worse, you smother your own candle...giving it no chance to burn brightly. And…
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Inactions are as important as actions!
Actions are guided more by emotions than by logic. That is more or less common wisdom, accepted and taught by motivational gurus. What isn't emphasized, and…
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What is it about us that motivates other people?
I believe other people's motivation is affected by their perception of my character. I believe intelligence, self-control, and drive are the foundations of…
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Leaders must step up
Leaders must do something about it... When they notice their people are under-performing When they find their people are making an unusually high amount of…
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Developing your positive mental attitude
Above and beyond everything else, Courage is the mind state that promotes positive mental attitude. Like every other mind state, with focused and persistent…
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Communication tip: It isn't about who's right or who's wrong. It's about who doesn't have emotions under control - and Why?
The Thinking Behind The Tweet Disputes in the work environment often escalate. And, they often spread and affect many people. When you face situations of…
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Bullies and confident people tend to win money disputes.
About the people who tend to struggle with money disputes…
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That Aversion to the Details
When people are at work, why do they avoid the details? Do they feel they are too busy and do not have time to attend to the details? Do they think the…
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"I'm too busy." When you make a habit of saying that you addict yourself to self-injections of stress.
The Thinking Behind The Tweet Your brain reacts when you say things like, "I'm too busy." and "I don't have time." When your brain hears you say things like…
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Personal Organization - today, every 30 minutes, stop what you are doing to check and take note of your mood.
The Thinking Behind the Tweet Most people spend time thinking about “To Do” lists and personal organization. They do things to ensure they are organized…
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When you display worry people get nervous. (Wow - Who'd have seen that coming!)
The Thinking Behind The Tweet Let's face it...some of us are natural-born worriers. When worry hits us we would do better if it wasn't for that body-language…
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Eating Elephant Emotions...you gotta eat them one bite at a time.
The Thinking Behind The Tweet People behave like Riders on Elephants on Paths . And our emotional Elephants outweigh our logical Riders 40-to-1.
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Courage, Confidence, & Succeeding at Business
If you wish to excel at business, you must have a better than average amount of courage and self-confidence. These states of mind, these habits of character…
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Thought Tweet #999
Thought Tweet #999 Anxiety: be present, observe it in real time, do what it takes to control that demon. The Thinking Behind The Tweet Anxiety is in our…
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When you are afraid of losing your job
Fearing job loss: Many people go to work, every day, fearing they will lose their jobs. Sometimes the fear is so strong it affects their behaviour and it…
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Thought Tweet #991
Thought Tweet #991 Take a chance...take off that fear coat. The Thinking Behind The Tweet When fear of change gains too much power over people it sucks the…
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Big Changes, Difficult Changes...never Impossible Changes
"It is very difficult to make really big, important, life-changing decisions because we are all susceptible to a formidable array of decision biases. There…
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Thought Tweet #982
Thought Tweet #982 When growth is stalled, many argue in favour of the status quo; fear of change often trumps common sense. The Thinking Behind The Tweet…
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Thought Tweet #980
Thought Tweet #980 How do we rebuild trust? One small, well-thought-out, personal, positive step at a time. The Thinking Behind The Tweet Maybe you care…
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Thought Tweet #975
Thought Tweet #975 Emotions + Stress = Irrational Behaviour The Thinking Behind The Tweet Emotions cause us to do illogical/irrational things, things we…
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Shall We Fail or Shall We Succeed?
Some people buy in when other people suggest things will fail. I choose to reject this buying into others' failure mindsets. Some people doubt other people…
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Repeat, Repeat, Repeat
Chinese Proverb: The palest ink is better than the strongest memory. So we must repeat, repeat, repeat. Many people get annoyed when other people forget this…
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Assaulting Self-Esteem
When we assault self-esteem it either fights back or shrinks away. When it fights back much energy is wasted cleaning up the relationship damage. When it…
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Thought Tweet #964
Thought Tweet #964 Problems gang up and hunt us down when we try to hide or shrink away. The Thinking Behind The Tweet People say, " Misery enjoys company ."…
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Thought Tweet #963
Thought Tweet #963 Here's what's in the cards: If we don't deal Solutions to Problems then Problems deal Stress to us. The Thinking Behind The Tweet Problems…
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Thought Tweet #952
Thought Tweet #952 Wow! Emotions sure make some quick, wild, & crazy decisions. The Thinking Behind The Tweet And - Emotions delegate erratically & poorly…