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Questions?: The Art of Asking Good Questions
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What mental-attitude flavour do you choose: Positivity, Negativity, or Indifference?
The Thinking Behind The Tweet The cornerstone of our personality , our mental attitude , shows up as the general flavour of our thoughts...as illustrated in…
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Here I go...Telling you about Asking
I’m telling you that you must cut down on telling people what to do and start asking more questions. Isn’t that oxymoronic ? Isn’t that the pot calling the…
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People Question Their Bosses’ Decisions [“The Point”]
I won’t be surprised in the slightest way if you figure The Point is a rather trite point. My argument is – it isn’t a trite point. The Point is a point…
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Do you choose to pay your bills on time?
You have a choice in business. You can choose to pay your bills on time or you can choose to not pay your bills on time. As a general rule, people who choose…
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Are you too busy to know other people’s businesses?
Common sense tells us: Most people look for a fair deal, where both parties exchange value, Some people look to cheat others, heads I win - tails you lose …
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The conflict between long-term desires and short-term gratification
We all have desires and goals. How do we achieve our desires and goals? For most people, the equation can be as simple as this: My Personal Changes + Other…
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Favouring a realistic approach to Values, Virtues & Rules
Values are concepts covering things important and admirable to us (our minds). Values are our perceptions of intrinsically valuable or desirable ways of…
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Do you aim to give people more, less, or exactly what they expect?
When you aim to give people more than they expect… You must be ready, willing and able to go the extra mile. You must embrace Napoleon Hill’s ‘QQS’…
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Negative Thinking – now, isn’t that a textured problem
Not only is it textured, negative thinking is thick out there. Negative thinking cannot be band-aided into insignificance: it is a thick, multi-layered…
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Motivation, Hormones, DNA & all those self-help books
...and, let's not forget Willpower ! Maybe motivation is just a byproduct of hormones? Our bodies create hormones and those hormones influence us. There’s…
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Does creativity crave structure?
I have heard opposing viewpoints. Some people think creativity happens when a group of brilliant young people bounce ideas off one another in zany…
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How do you go about making yourself useful?
Do you want to be useful? If so - How do you go about making yourself useful? *** First - What does ‘being useful’ mean to you? Is ‘being useful’ about…
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How do you really hold someone accountable? Part 3
Link to Part 1 Link to Part 2 Some say the key to accountability is 'delegating responsibility': when people feel responsible for something they hold…
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Curiosity bolsters self-confidence.
Curiosity opens the door to alternative realities: this is discovered when you are curious, when you ask questions and when you listen to other people's…
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Saying "No"
We became allergic to the word "No" when we were young and now all of us don't like to hear that word when others say it to us. And, our aversion to the word…
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Who sells Heinz ketchup?
Today, I am thinking about the numerous pieces of advice we receive from 'the experts' on how people should do business and how to improve company practices…
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On goals 'greater than ourselves'
"Our goals should serve as markers, measurements of the progress we make in pursuit of something greater than ourselves." Simon Sinek, inspirational post …
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Nasty or Nice?
Google studied teamwork and determined a very important factor was 'to be nice'. Overall, that makes common sense... I mean - isn't that what our mothers…
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‘being perfect by the end’ versus ‘doing better today’
Simon Sinek wrote, “ The goal is not to be perfect by the end. The goal is to be better today . ” I wonder – What do people think and feel when they read…
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Decadence & Confidence
Confidence-founded businesses enjoy many advantages, to name a handful: can do attitude, which leads to decisive action optimism, which breeds…
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Who wants to improve?
Who wants to improve? Some people do - they seek out motivational speakers and courses. These people want something and recognize the status quo isn't going…
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Have you noticed - somebody's always telling you how to think?
If somebody's always telling you how to think then - Why not let that person be you? We are immersed in people trying to tell us what to think. Sometimes…
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Who wants to improve?
You probably spend quite a bit of your time watching people perform and noticing some people tend to do things really well while others tend to do things…
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How do disorganized people accomplish productive things in business?
To explore this topic, I did some on-line research and found an interesting article that has fed into my thinking process. Below are some excerpts from that…
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Leaders & What To Do About Stress
When our brains/minds register things that are important, our bodies experience stress responses. The more important the topic/outcome is to us, the higher…
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(Don't) Guess who's paying attention to detail.
Guess who's paying attention to detail? Better still... Don't leave it to guesswork. *** When it comes to succeeding with the details, there's a delicate…
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Fixing Attention-to-Detail problems
I have recently been bombarded by people talking about situations where people they work with are illustrating a lack of attention to detail. The sheer…
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Why can't you teach an old dog new tricks?
Certainly, there must be some old dogs out there who can learn new tricks. Maybe people have sold old dogs short, writing them off too quickly. Or… Maybe…
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The Joy(?) of Business Stress & Struggle
Sometimes, people repeat the same interpersonal battles, day after day: battling the same people; arguing about the same topics; using the same [losing]…
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On Purpose, With Willpower – and a willpower development tip
Does your willpower have a fighting chance? Do your thoughts about the future contain hope? Do you believe you have the ability to change/determine your fate?