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Thought Tweet #865

by Rick Baker
On Nov 8, 2013

Thought Tweet #865 Listen to what people say...are their words the words of Victims or Initiators?

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

We do better with people when we understand them...as Stephen Covey taught - 'Seek First to Understand'.

We all go through ups and downs and the ups and downs can skew our day-to-day personalities. So, yes - it is rash to judge personality too quickly.

Setting day-to-day variances aside, we all have predominant tendencies. While we do not want to pretend we are armchair psychologists, our success in this world of other people increases when we observe people and develop an ability to understand them.

And, people do have predominant tendencies. One of those tendencies has been captured by psychologists and labelled locus of control. Some of us 'have' an internal locus of control while some of us 'have' an external locus of control. People who 'have' the internal locus of control believe they can affect change and outcomes. They tend to be Initiators. People who 'have' the external locus of control believe they have little ability to influence change or outcomes. They are fatalists or Victims. 

Victims tend to complain about their lot in life. Victims tend to blame others. Victims tend to blame situations. Victims are pessimistic. Victims make excuses. [Feelings of envy and jealousy hang around the shadows of Victims.]

Initiators are the opposite.

[Give Victims comfort. Give Initiators latitude.]

Integrity - such an interesting piece of human fabric

by Rick Baker
On Nov 8, 2013

I think people have a built-in need for Integrity.

Then - so very often - we cause them to violate it. 

We do this in subtle, unplanned ways.

We create work environments that conflict with their inherent Integrity. We construct tasks that do not fit their Integrity. We communicate in ways that offend their Integrity. And we promote situations that encourage and sometimes force them to act in ways that violate their Integrity.

Integrity is a personal thing. Yes, it has common threads that bind us. Call them cultural or community threads.

Yet, Integrity is a personal egoic thing.

Unfortunately, most people struggle with it rather than work to understand it. Most people don’t even take the time to define Integrity. Yet, they place high standards of it on others.

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Integrity

Thought Tweet #864.5

by Rick Baker
On Nov 7, 2013

Thought Tweet #864.5 "Men are ruled by toys." [Perhaps, there is joy in things.]

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

My favourite composer, Richard Wagner apparently said, "Joy is not in us, it is in things."

I understand the 'theory' but struggle with the 'practice'.

Many things, some small, trigger joy in me: pocket knives and souvenir coins are examples. More specifically, I get a kick out of my Laguiole jack-knives and my Napoleon Bonaparte coin. [200 years ago Napoleon bought Laguiole knives for his officers...that put the Laguiole company on the map... and their knives still display the 'Bonaparte Bee'.]

Napoleon bought lots of trinkets and toys for his officers.

When his practice of buying toys for his men was questioned, Napoleon replied, "Men are ruled by toys.

I understand the 'theory' and the 'practice'.

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Beyond Business | Hero Worship | Thought Tweets

Let's put an end to that "I'm too busy" mindset.

by Rick Baker
On Nov 7, 2013

"I don't have time."

"I'm too busy."

Many people say those things.

I say, "Successful people have more time".

And I say, "I'm too busy" is an extremely unhealthy way to be thinking and talking.

It's a troubled self-image crying out for help.

As Robin Sharma said in 'The Greatness Guide' (2007), "Your schedule doesn't lie". [Just check your schedule. It will confirm you are not too busy.]

Why is "I'm too busy" such a bad mindset?

It's a resignation. It's victim-speak, a victim crying out. It's a person out of control, problems on the verge of happening. It's a negative contagion. I'm-too-busy misery enjoys I'm-too-busy company. After someone says "I'm too busy"...then what happens? Not much because everybody's thinking and talking about nobody having any time.

That's a bunch of Hogwash!

It is not accurate thinking and it is not helpful in any way.

There's nothing good about "I'm too busy".

That's it. That's the problem with "I'm too busy": nothing good ever follows it. Whenever anyone says "I'm too busy" or "I don't have time" nothing good ever follows.

The life of a victim is an unpleasant one.

How to remove "I'm too busy" from your repertoire of excuses:

  1. Stop thinking it.
  2. Stop saying it.
  3. Stop listening to it.
  4. Stop accepting it.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Beyond Business | I'm too busy! - I don't have time!

Thought Tweet #864

by Rick Baker
On Nov 7, 2013

Thought Tweet #864 Influence flows when actions are backed by strong appetites for & vivid visions of change.

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

And the results are constructive when formed by intelligence and self-control.

Influence - Why, that's something every single one of us does every single day. 

But of most importance - What form does our Influence take?

How have our intentions or inattentions shaped our influences?

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Change: Creating Positive Change | Influencing | Thought Tweets

Thought Tweet #863.5

by Rick Baker
On Nov 6, 2013

Thought Tweet #863.5 A person who chases two rabbits is too busy to catch either.

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Playing with the ancient wisdom of Confucius...“He who chases two rabbits, captures neither.”

You don't have to chase two rabbits to be too busy. [There's plenty of other ways to multi-task your way to too busy.]

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Thought Tweets | Wisdom: Surviving the Test of Time | I'm too busy! - I don't have time!

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