Will try, Adeel.

I mean I am seeing people struggling. They are struggling while performing tasks and they are struggling while communicating with one another about performing tasks. They are not exploring why they themselves are struggling with tasks. They are not exploring why other people are struggling with tasks.

They are witnessing task-struggles [i.e., living through them] without observing...observing being the first step toward understanding [self and then others]. They are not self-monitoring let alone self-regulating.

Stated another way: many people are so busy 'doing' they are not taking the time to think about why they are struggling. What's worse is - while they are too busy 'doing' they are both thinking and saying things like "I am too busy" and "I don't have time".

That's a spiral of bad habits.