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Thought Tweet #946

by Rick Baker
On Mar 3, 2014

Thought Tweet #946 Small stuff is like a sponge. If you sweat over it long enough it becomes so big & heavy it drags you under.

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Nothing beats fear of failure when it comes to causing people to sweat the small stuff. 

Fear of Failure...one of the 6 Fears identified by Napoleon Hill in his classic 'Think and Grow Rich', (1937).

 

About Perfectionists

by Rick Baker
On Mar 3, 2014

Wouldn’t it be interesting if perfectionists would allow us to walk step-by-step with them as they perform their perfectionist role.

When they are being the perfectionist - do they think much, or are they simply compelled to do...and do...and do?

When perfectionists think, is their thinking confined to ruts where thoughts keep repeating while actions are stalled?

When perfectionists think, what are they thinking? Are their thoughts like those of non-perfectionists except more textured or broader in scope? Or are perfectionists' thoughts nonsensical or scattered or bizarre? 

To what extent are perfectionists’ thoughts being dragged along by feelings of need or worry or criticism? Are perfectionists' thoughts always dragged along by negative feelings? Or, are perfectionists' thoughts sometimes laced with positive feelings...or mania?

To what degree are perfectionists driven to create? Is perfectionist-behaviour aligned with building value or is it simply driven by an extra-strong interest in doing things right?

Perhaps an in-depth understanding of perfectionists’ mindsets and thought processes would put us in a much better position to help them…assuming they need, want, and are ready to accept our help.

Or...

Is perfectionism in business a dysfunction by its very name?

Is perfectionism a dysfunction that a leader simply cannot ignore...a signal that corrective action is a must?

In business, doing things right is a good thing. Like everything in business, there are costs associated with doing things right...at the least, there are the costs of time spent. And, perfectionists overspend their time. Others know this. That's likely how the label 'perfectionist' came about in the first place. So, perfectionists are inclined to spend too much time on things as they work to do those things the right way. That sounds conflicted.

Where does perfectionism end and indecision start?

Or - do these 2 things overlap?

Or - is perfectionism an exaggerated form of indecision...one destined to to thwart both good decisions and delegation? 

Questioned another way...

Is perfectionism the antidote for decisiveness?

If so, as we work at doing things right in business, can indecision help us achieve better results?

 

We have fears. And, sometimes, fears have us.

by Rick Baker
On Feb 28, 2014

Fear can freeze us on the spot, rendering us helpless, humbled, and humiliated. 

Fear can gnaw away at us for long periods of time, slowly but surely, bite after bite, consuming our energy and killing our will to press on or fight. 

Fear can overwhelm our self-control, allowing our emotions to spill out in embarrassing ways. 

Fear can cloud our judgment, making us think like victims and see others as oppressors.

Sometimes when fears engulf us we cannot get the picture of most-dire outcomes out of our minds. Other times we see only unknowns. Regardless, when fear has its hold on us outcomes seem to be beyond our control. 

Despite all these challenges - despite all the negatives fears bring to our lives - we possess fears. We possess fears. And sometimes fears possess us. 

Why?

Why do we possess fears?

It seems fears have a home somewhere in our DNA. Much argument has been made in support of the survival-value of emotions and the fears that follow emotions. Without fear of sabre-tooth cats and other predators our ancestors would have been short-lived and we would not be here. Without the fear of fire we would all have many more burn scars. Yes, some fears serve a useful purpose. There are good and positive reasons why we possess the ability to fear. 

But - why do fears possess us?

And - can we do anything to change that?

Why do fears possess us? Because its roots are linked with survival, fear is a naturally powerful mindset. When the mindset of fear is repeated it has strong habit-forming potential.  A few bee stings generate a life-long wariness. If the bee-wary person has the ability to avoid bees then the habit of bee-wariness is a good one. If, for some reason, the person believes he or she lacks the ability to avoid bees then the bee-wariness habit can become a bad habit...a neurosis...a phobia...or even a psychosis. Then, the fear of bees possesses the person and this can cause much distress.

When a fear possesses - what can be done? Can the person remove the bad-habit fear?

Yes - for most people, most bad-habit fears can be reduced and removed. The key is to understand fears are natural. They started with survival roots and they were so well fed they grew beyond good habits into bad habits. Regardless of how they grew, the best way to remove bad-habit fears is step-by-step correction.

For example, if a person fears bees then the person could overcome the fear by taking steps like these:

  • See a picture of a bee
  • Then get comfortable enough to hold the picture
  • Then see a live bee from a safe distance, say from an adjoining room through a window
  • Then watch another person sit in the room with the bee
  • Then put on a beekeeper's outfit
  • Then enter the room with the bee
  • Then take off part of the beekeeper's outfit, say one glove
  • Then remove the entire outfit and sit in the room with the bee
  • Then get comfortable allowing the bee to buzz around
  • Then let the bee land on one of your arms
  • Then add more bees to the room
  • Etc.

Remarkable, permanent results have been achieved using step-by-step escalated exposures to remedy fears.  

There are many other methods for easing and removing fears after we stop possessing them because they possess us. 

The starting point is to identify the fear and commit to removing the bad habit it has become. The key is to take small steps that contain enough control over the situation so a sufficient level of comfort is maintained as positive change progresses. 

 

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Change: Creating Positive Change | Emotions & Feelings @ Work

Thought Tweet #933

by Rick Baker
On Feb 12, 2014

Thought Tweet #933 The status quo ain't...and it never will be again.

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

We can count on change to arrive real soon.

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Change: Creating Positive Change | Thought Tweets

And another 5 ways to Influence

by Rick Baker
On Jan 31, 2014

Understand People Do Only 3 Things: Good Habits, Bad Habits, & New Things

Good Habits are things people think and do that help them achieve long-term desires and goals. Bad Habits are things that people think and do that do not help them achieve long-term desires and goals. Good leaders use these simple definitions to inject clarity into their lives. Then good leaders work at reducing their performance of Bad Habits and expanding their performance of Good Habits. And, good leaders test New Things...relentlessly seeking more Good Habits.

Take Talent To Task

Good leaders are fascinated by people's talents. When people's talents show a capability of aligning with the trust of the leader's goals, good leaders ensure the talented person has access to (1) opportunities to put the talent to productive use, (2) specialized knowledge to complement the talent, and (3) time to practice skills to hone the talent into a personal strength. Then good leaders don't leave things to chance - they help people connect personal strengths to important tasks. 

Don’t force change…construct it with comfort

Good leaders know change is constructive only when people are comfortable. And personal and business growth happens when people learn how to expand their comfort zones. Knowing these things, good leaders consider people's comfort/stress levels and design change in increments that help expand comfort zones without triggering the destructive consequences that naturally happen when people are forced into discomfort zones. Good leaders also know this correct approach to change 'dominoes' as confidence escalates.

Repeat clearly, "I do have time!"

Good leaders know the importance of leading by example. So, they know if they say "I don't have time" or "I'm too busy" their followers will pick up on that, think the same way, talk the same way, and act accordingly...spreading the lack-of-abundance mindset to one and all. Knowing this, good leaders remove the "I don't have time" & "I'm too busybad habit from their thoughts and words. They replace the bad habit with good habits: as examples, they apply the 80/20 Rule and they practice abundance thought and solution talk.

Change character for the better

All great leaders changed their character. Perhaps Abraham Lincoln performed one of the greatest self-transformations. When he was a young man he had the habit of openly criticizing other people. In 1842 Lincoln publicly criticized Illinois state employee James Shields. Shields took exception to the criticism and challenged Lincoln to a duel. The 2 men faced one another with weapons in hands. Fortunately their seconds intervened. Lincoln used the incident as a life-lesson and he chose to change his character for the better...rarely criticizing others. Lincoln's change of character took him from the dueling field to the White House. 

Bringing Process to People & Bringing People to Process - Part 3

by Rick Baker
On Jan 17, 2014

Link to Part 1

 

Bringing People to Process - What does that mean?

We can lead a horse to water but we can't make it drink.

We can lead a person to work but we can't make them do it right.

Horses have to want to drink before they drink.

People have to want to do work right before they do work right.


The Key Message: When People want to do work right, their businesses excel.

So, let's focus on helping people want to do work right. Let's not just delegate work to them, let's make sure the work to be delegated makes sense and let's make sure the delegation is performed in a most-influencing way.

The work to be delegated - that's the ingredients.

Influence - that's the key secret spice, the flavouring for success.

To do a better job of Bringing People to Process, we need better preparation. To prepare, we need to learn about people so we have a good working knowledge of WHY people become motivated and HOW we can assist them in becoming motivated. After we know these things we need to adjust our delegation processes. We also need to adjust the tools we use to communicate work-process.

Here's a 'prime example': Taking Talent to Task...i.e., to fit the context of this 3-Part series of Thought Posts, re-word that - Bring Talent to Task

NOTE: There is a very special relationship between Talents/Strengths and motivation/ability to perform Tasks well. That's why Bringing Talent to Task is a 'prime example' of how to improve your business performance.

We Bring Talent to Task when we:

  1. Know individuals' Talents & Strengths,
  2. Know the details of the work we want done [the nature of the work-process, the details of the Tasks, and the specifics of the required actions],
  3. Know how to delegate in ways that influence and cause people to feel accountable, &
  4. Perform the delegation successfully.
 

Conclusion:

Anyone can bring process to people. The best leaders know it takes thought, commitment, and effort to excel at process design, including communication design and especially delegation design.

Anyone can bring people to process. The best leaders know the keys to success are individuals' self-motivation and how leaders influence people in ways that inspire the right actions to generate the right results.

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