by Rick Baker
On Apr 4, 2014
Chinese Proverb: The palest ink is better than the strongest memory.
So we must repeat, repeat, repeat.
Many people get annoyed when other people forget this or that.
I smile and remind myself to repeat, repeat, repeat.
Actually - I use an autosuggestion [self-talk] process of repeating to myself the message "I must repeat my messages to others". In this way I am certainly practising what I am preaching.
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Tip: If you want to reduce your stress levels then focus your attention on how you feel when you find yourself in a situation where someone did not follow your instruction or, in some other way, didn't receive the message you were trying to send. If you feel annoyed by other people's failure to get your message or failure to remember your message or failure to act on your message then - replace your annoyance with a healthy dose of repetition. And, while you do the repetition test your pulse regularly to make sure you are not feeling annoyed.
Plan as you would for any important task.
Set strategies and tactics for repeating, repeating, repeating.
Then go about repeating your messages calmly and clearly and:
- watch how repetition helps improve other people's ability to remember and take action,
- watch how repetition improves results...the results you desire,
- watch how repetition reduces your stress level, and
- watch how repetition improves your attitude.
by Rick Baker
On Apr 3, 2014
Thought Tweet #969 If you feel you don't have time - Listen to someone. See how slowly time moves?
The Thinking Behind The Tweet
Oh...I see...how silly of me...I should have known you are too busy to listen.
I should have noticed your inability to make eye contact, your looking over my shoulder, your interruptions...it all makes sense...you are too busy.
by Rick Baker
On Mar 31, 2014
Thought Tweet #966 'To Do' lists often fail. Whereas 'To Do' + 'Why Do' = Success.
The Thinking Behind The Tweet
Thinking about interests, purpose, definite chief aim, definite purpose, and Simon Sinek's' 'Start With Why'...
If nothing else 'Why Do' provides context. That's the worst-case scenario. The best-case scenario is a buy-in on Values and Vision and Purpose.
Adding 'Why Do' to 'To Do'...well there's no downside...and much upside.