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When you criticize people you trigger their 'No' responses....and, at that point, constructive communication is over.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 11, 2014

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

When 'No' thoughts are filling the brain there is little room for 'Yes" thoughts. In fact, chances are 'No' and 'Yes' thoughts will not want to occupy the brain at the same time. They would rather take turns. And, for most people the 'No' thoughts are much more sticky. When they find their way into people's brains they stick there until they run out of reasons to defend and bolster the ego.

While 'No' thoughts are sticking around the brain, working away to defend and bolster the ego there is little, if any, opportunity for constructive communication...particularly communication involving the person who triggers the 'No' response.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Thought Tweets

Do you know the nature of the relationships between the talents and work-tasks?

by Rick Baker
On Aug 11, 2014

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Talents tend to bounce off tasks.

This is especially true when talents first meet tasks...talents often resist new tests.

And bounce off is predictable when talents meet repeated defeats at the hands of tasks...after repeated defeats, talents will avoid tasks at all costs.

It's like talents have egos of their own.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Thought Tweets

Sometimes when you're over your head it's too late to keep your chin up.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 10, 2014

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Ego and Pride and Denial...they have their purposes, they have their limits.

Best to invest time in self-knowledge before, not after, those limits are surpassed.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Thought Tweets

Success can mean Failure. Failure can mean Success.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 9, 2014

The Thinking Behind the Sales Tweet

And, Failure can mean Failure. And, Success can mean Success. It all depends on what you believe, what you truly know, and how you use what you truly know. And, of course, Emotions & Egos often have the ability to overrule Common Sense.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Thought Tweets

Trust: it's a dynamic thing that flows 2 ways; you extend it in order to receive it; it's about Action.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 8, 2014

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Quality character is a gift.

A pleasing personality is a powerful gift.

But...

Actions easily trump both.

Ensure your Actions score winning points.

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Influencing | Thought Tweets

Nowadays...technologies are becoming as fragile as relationships.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 8, 2014

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

When you disappoint a person, trust drops. Maybe you'll get a second chance to repair the trust. Maybe you will not.

It is easier to destroy an interpersonal relationship than build one.

Interpersonal relationships are fragile - we know that.

Now, there's another complication in our lives: technologies are becoming increasingly fragile. Technologies are becoming so fragile we replace them long before we break them.

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