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When you get even you become uneven.

by Rick Baker
On Oct 27, 2016

Competition is a wonderful thing.

And, competition has its limitations.

If you (or your ego) approach life as if it's a series of competitive interactions then, sooner or later, your self-confidence will begin to sour. The more your self-confidence sours the more other people will appear to be competitive. The more others appear competitive the more you will react competitively. Your life then becomes a 'vicious circle' of competition. And, under this 'vicious circle' your self-confidence sours to a point where you cannot obtain success or peace of mind.

Looking at it another way...

Self-confidence relies on constructive behaviour and positive energy.

If your competitive actions bolster your positive energy then you are engaged in productive competition.

If your competitive actions reduce your positive energy then you are engaged in destructive competition.

You can monitor your energy level and gauge whether or not your mindset is positive.

So, you can determine whether or not your competitive tendencies are bolstering or reducing your positive energy.

If you find your positive energy is shrinking…be more selective as you choose your battles…ease off competitive thoughts and actions until you restore your positive vigour.

Looking at it one more way...

When you must battle on all fronts at all times you become an ultimate loser.

And, when you place too much emphasis on getting even you become uneven.

Don't crow when you know...at least, don't always crow when you know.

by Rick Baker
On Oct 18, 2016

Crows: I am very fond of those majestic birds.

I know many people do not see the majesty in crows so they view crows as nuisances...for some reason I have never shared that viewpoint.

Crows take care of their old, frail family members. [If you want to learn more about crows and their aging parents go on-line and search 'crows caring for parents'.]

I judge crows by what I observe them doing in our neighbourhood. Mostly, I see and hear them talking to one another. Sometimes one-to-one, sometimes in groups, which I expect are their families. Sometimes the crows seem to be calling one another, perhaps reporting on their positions or sharing news about food. Other times they seem to be arguing with one another or perhaps they are having family-to-family arguments. When crows communicate with one another they change their 'body language'. Sometimes they seem to be taking slow, deliberate steps. They tilt their heads and extend their necks, perhaps to present their faces more clearly to their audiences? Sometimes, crows' communication antics are comical...as if the crow at centre stage is a cocky teenager overacting in front of his family...parading...strutting his stuff...talking loudly...crowing what he knows. 

When I see crows doing this it reminds me of humans who crow when they know. 

Some humans cannot help themselves - they have a bad habit - they always crow when they know. They cannot stop themselves from crowing.

When humans crow what they know it tends to be off-putting. It tends to stifle communication and the sharing of important thoughts and ideas.

There is no need to crow when you know. Think before you share your knowledge. When you feel you must share what you know do your best to package it well....and time it well. 

And remember Harry Truman's advice, “It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.” 

"Attitude is more important than Intelligence"...that's the wrong way to think about Attitude!

by Rick Baker
On Oct 17, 2016

Instead of thinking Attitude is the winner of a competition with Intelligence, understand Attitude is a subset of Intelligence or, better still, understand Attitude is an outcome of Intelligence.

The folks who came up with the 'Fish Philosophy' have it right - "Choose Your Attitude". And, if you embrace that advice, your Intelligence will guide your choice and you will select a good/winning/positive Attitude.

Attitude, whether good or bad or indifferent, is not an innate trait of character.

Attitude is a choice.

Good/winning/positive Attitude is an intelligent choice.

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We can split Intelligence into two general components: logical intelligence and emotional intelligence. Logical intelligence tells us we must choose a good Attitude over a bad one...so much upside...no downside. Of more importance, logical intelligence tells us emotional intelligence will have to be most-diligent to help good Attitude remain good in the faces of the ongoing challenges it will regularly encounter.

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Thinking as in Think and Grow Rich

‘Belief’ brings peace of mind, confidence & success

by Rick Baker
On Oct 13, 2016

Have you noticed when you truly believe something will happen you become calmer and have a greater clarity of focus?

Have you noticed when you truly believe something will happen your worries melt away and/or are replaced by feelings of certainty and confidence?

For example, consider situations where you have been confused…situations where you face many options and are trying to make an important decision.  In these situations, you consider and weigh some options. You deliberate. You decide. And, sometimes your thinking produces an incredibly clear decision, backed by not just decisiveness but also a belief that the actions to follow will result in achievement of the desired goal.

Of course, this does not happen with all of your decisions. However, it does happen for some. And, when you fully believe in the outcome - would you not agree - the successful result is almost guaranteed?  When your decisions are backed by strong belief, your confidence is bolstered, you have greater peace of mind, your actions are definite, and success inevitably follows.

Belief is the prime ingredient, the catalyst for results.

Stated another way…

"Belief is the thermostat that regulates what we accomplish in life."

David J Schwartz, 'The Magic of Thinking BIG' (1959…2015 audio book)

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Belief enables us to accomplish:

  • Success – achievement of our goals
  • Confidence – an essential trait of character
  • Peace of Mind – which allows us to enjoy our successes, learn from our errors, and accept other people’s frailties

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Napoleon Hill said...

What the mind can conceive and believe the mind can achieve.

[What a wonderful thought to keep top of mind...always!]

Thinking Big, without being hairy or audacious

by Rick Baker
On Oct 12, 2016

Hairy means covered in hair.

Audacious at best means taking surprisingly bold risks and at worst being impudent and disrespectful.

It seems some people buy into big, hairy audacious business goals. I do not.

Firstly, I struggle to see the value excess hair contributes to goals. Secondly, by definition, audacity brings surprising risks and that can be not just off-putting but also unnecessary. These things disrupt relationships and destroy peace of mind. So, I don't buy into the merits of hairy and/or audacious goals. [Notice - I did not rant on about the emotional impact of dooming people to fail.] Again, I don't buy into the merits of big, hairy and audacious goals.

However, I do support the concept of big goals.

Big goals give us reasons to stretch, to learn, to grow...and growth is an essential part of successful businesses and successful lives. Also, I believe [all else being equal] big goals contribute positively to mental health and add both interest and vigor to life.

So – let’s embrace big goals, the worthy effort they nurture and the growth and peace of mind they bring.

 

Footnote

For another quasi-tirade against BHAGs...

...and another.

 

Ready, Willing and Able … What a wonderful combination!

by Rick Baker
On Sep 15, 2016

Ready, willing and able…

Isn't that a wonderful combination?

How sad it is when two of them are there and the third fails to arrive. 

In particular, how sad it is when the middle one doesn't show up.

When we are ready and willing but not able we struggle and fail. This may not be so bad. In fact, it is often a vital part of the learning experience. 

When we are willing and able but not ready, that too may not be so bad. We can muster up readiness and be prepared for future opportunities.

When we are ready and able but not willing we must step back and try to figure out why are we not willing. What is causing us to stall? 

Without power of will many things falter:

  • persistence falters
  • conviction falters
  • Good Habits falter
The problems that follow lack of willpower can squeeze the joy out of life...and the productivity...and the quality of relationships.

Clearly, power of will is an elite character trait. It is the necessary ingredient for action and achievement. And, its absence quickly negates other fine character traits including readiness and ability

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Values: Personal Values

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