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Curiosity bolsters self-confidence.

by Rick Baker
On Aug 5, 2016

Curiosity opens the door to alternative realities: this is discovered when you are curious, when you ask questions and when you listen to other people's self-stories. 

When people see your [sincere] curiosity at play, most will reciprocate and share their realities with you - realities that are as true and accurate as yours...but, often, remarkably different than yours. 

There are, of course, other ways to learn about other people's realities. We live in the age of The Internet of Things and enormous volumes of information are available online. Consider Facebook and Twitter. These two online social media venues offer insight into people’s realities, or at least insight into the way they want to present their 'realities' to you in pictures and stories. 

To really get a full perspective on other people's realities it is better to interact with them face-to-face. Have real conversations. And to maximize those conversations, it is best to be curious and to ask good questions then observe and listen intently. 

Give people plenty of time to share their stories with you.

Curiosity is an innate talent. We all possess it. At least, at one time when we were young we certainly did.

Curiosity is also a learned skill. 

If life experiences have beaten curiosity out of you – don’t give up. Your curiosity can be resurrected. Your curiosity can also be enhanced so it will become a lifelong tool. Curiosity will help you understand other people in ‘your world’. Curiosity will allow you to understand how you differ from other people in very fundamental ways. And curiosity will help you understand why other people disagree with your views and sometimes refuse to embrace your views. As you gain understanding of the differences, the knowledge you gain will build your self-confidence. 

When you understand your perspectives differ from other people’s perspectives, you have the ability to construct your messages in ways that do not threaten other people’s perspectives. At the same time the messages embedded in your questions will help others understand your views. In effect, communication preparation – question preparation – is the key to building both self-confidence and personal relationships. Choose to deliver your viewpoints in ways that will be understood [questions] rather than in ways that will be poorly received [instructions]. When you develop skill in this area you will grow self-confidence. 

 

On goals 'greater than ourselves'

by Rick Baker
On Jul 4, 2016

"Our goals should serve as markers, measurements of the progress we make in pursuit of something greater than ourselves."

Simon Sinek, inspirational post - June 13th, 2016

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This goal advice scratched at me. [Perhaps, I was itchy before it arrived?]

While it carries an admirable-altruistic message at its surface, I'm not sure this advice fits the majority of people. Warm & friendly - perhaps. Appropriate & helpful - likely not. 

For me, 'greater than ourselves' rings of fundamentalist thinking. I can imagine Nietzsche fuming at the thought. I can imagine a pained expression on Emerson's kind face. I can imagine fundamentalists rubbing their hands. 

The message scratched at me for two quite different reasons, which I will approach as follows:

First, as a general rule - life is an ongoing learning experience. Certainly, this applies to people who possess normal intelligence and at least a little curiosity. For those who also possess a realistic perspective and at least a little humility, much of the lifelong learning is about self. Each person is a complex piece of art, worthy of relentless study. With the self being a lifelong work-in-process, doesn't it make sense to set goals for greater selves rather than goals for greater than selves? For those who argue they have completed their self-development and are as great as they can be...well Nietzsche would argue these elite few would be stepping backwards to find purposes beyond their own.

Second, isn't 'greater then ourselves' a strange phrase? I mean, really, what does it mean? Is it intended to imply there are goals/interests that are greater in value than our own goals? If so, are these great goals/interests distinct from our own goals/interests? Is it even possible to pursue any goal/interest without serving self-interest at some level? Can we pay forward without receiving some level of gratification/personal compensation? Now, I am thinking of the great Emerson and his discourse on Compensation. Won't we have to set the wisdom of Emerson aside if we wish to have goals 'greater than ourselves'?

Maybe we should call it 'applied curiosity'…

by Rick Baker
On Jun 16, 2016

…following up on the thought post Leaders, Creative Confusion & Deaf Ears

Excerpts from a note to a friend...

We are dealing with that scary concept called "change". 

We are dealing with overlapping words and a variety of predispositions and personal filters. 

The important thing is to make sure people are talking about the same things/concepts - regardless of the specific words we use. I've formed the habit of discussing and getting buy-in on the definitions before trying to influence the thoughts and actions. For example - at www.rickbaker.ca here is a Category called something like "Spirited Definitions". I use that section to capture the thoughts I have written about words that I have found to be prone to personal interpretation (and cliche application).

We need to take this slow...adding little pieces of education over time. Otherwise, we turn people off. I've formed the habit of delivering the education in concise interactive workshops...with a little bit of fun...learning lunches, for example. This increases buy-in, however, some people will never get comfortable. So, the little workshops help separate those who are ready, willing and able from those who are not (including those who most likely never will be.) 

Curiosity/Ideation/Creativity/Innovation/Invention can be self-forced...think of Edison. But, aside from masters like Henry Ford, few of us are able to force these things on other people. 

When it comes to deviations from enshrined processes like ISO, I'd recommend an up-front recognition of who's gonna buy in and who ain't...

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Curiosity - Invention, Innovation & Creativity

Leaders, Creative Confusion & Deaf Ears

by Rick Baker
On Jun 14, 2016

"Intelligence looks for what is known to solve problems. Creativity looks for what is unknown to discover possibilities." Simon Sinek posted that on June 2, 2016.

Now, to be clear - I'm a big fan of Simon Sinek's 'Golden Circle'...'discovering and starting with your why'. In fact, I've told pretty much every business contact I've known for more than a handful of hours about the value embedded in the Golden Circle concept. And, I've written about it a number of times - link

With my admiration of Simon Sinek clarified...

I really struggle with his June 2nd inspirational thought for the day...

About Simon's June 2nd thought for the day...

I think it's wrong to presume Intelligence and Creativity are distinct concepts. I think Creativity is a subset of Intelligence. To support this thinking I go back to 'Think and Grow Rich', containing Napoleon Hill's views on what he called Synthetic Imagination and Creative Imagination. While very different in 'form', these concepts are governed/administered by thoughts (in human brains and minds)...i.e., they are forms of Intelligence. Borrowing from and expanding upon Hill's signature phrase:

What the mind can conceive and believe the mind can achieve...because the mind bears the gifts of Intelligence.

It's all about using our minds to THINK. And thinking, even in its poorest form, let alone in its creative forms, contains Intelligence. 

The June 2nd Simon Sinek post is timely...

At a recent session, we discussed Innovation...which led to discussion of Creativity...(and in my view, quite a bunch of poorly-thought-through communications).

It is surprising to see and hear so many leaders (apparently including Simon Sinek) giving such little thought to the concept of Creativity...and, again with too little thought, so many leaders talking about and delegating work under concepts like Innovation & Creativity...often, in fact regularly, without even taking time to give quality thought to formulating prior to communicating, meaningful definitions of those words! And, in the rare instances where definitions of these words have been created they are often 'unworkable'...'un-transferable'...'un-delegatable'...i.e., destined to reach confused ears and confused minds. 

Leaders ought to remedy that problem...I mean, if they want to inspire changes for the better, leaders ought to be very clear when they talk about important things like Innovation, Creativity, Invention, and other such terms.

If we want Innovation and Creativity (and Invention) (and Possibility Thinking) (and other such things that, as the saying goes, take people's thinking out of boxes), we leaders need to give these topics the effort and study they deserve.

If you are interested in some of my thoughts on these topics, search the words 'creativity', 'innovation', 'curiosity', 'invention' and 'out of the box' at www.rickbaker.ca.

I think all of us should define these words/concepts before we use them to try to influence other people's thinking or behaviour. 

If we find our definitions falling on confused ears (and confused actions make that clear rather quickly...when we choose to follow up and observe)...if we find our definitions of words like Creativity and Innovation and Invention and Possibility Thinking falling on confused ears then we need to step back and consider the changes we need to make to remove the confusion our wording has generated.

 

PS:  We should avoid at virtually every opportunity the temptation to use that phrase thinking out of the box

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Curiosity - Invention, Innovation & Creativity

Decadence & Confidence

by Rick Baker
On May 2, 2016

Are we spoiled rotten?

Is our self-absorption reducing our ability to succeed?

Is our expectation of kindness killing our ability to be competitive?

When I use the word "decadence", my thoughts are much closer to Nietzsche than President's Choice. I'm thinking of two types of people: those with resilient, vibrant, 'living' self-confidence and others with a shortage of that ingrained self-confidence. I'm thinking there is a mix of these two types of people, with the truly confident people being outnumbered by those who are not truly confident. This 'imbalance' creates a natural tension between the two groups...each trying to exert its influence on the other. And, when the influence of those lacking confidence shifts the balance away from confidence the equilibrium is distorted as decadence sets in. 

This is a 'societal phenomenon', affecting all levels of community: nations, tribes, cities, communes, families...and businesses.

Every business has a 'confidence factor'.

Some businesses are founded on confidence: self-confidence in individuals, confidence in relationships and teams, confidence in products and services, confidence in leadership...confidence in business. these confidence-founded businesses enjoy many advantages, to name a handful: 

  • can do attitude, which leads to decisive action
  • optimism, which breeds open-mindedness and abundance mindsets
  • curiosity, which triggers enthusiasm, creativity, and innovation
  • efficiency, from role clarity and goal clarity to doing the right things at the right times...'natural discipline' at work
  • quality relations, from civility and harmony to trust and real integrity, within the organization and clearly evident to all affected by the organization

Re-phrasing the initial questions...

Are those who lack confidence overriding those who have it, reducing our businesses' aggregate 'confidence factor'?

Are those who lack confidence reducing confident people's ability to realize their visions and goals?

Are those who lack confidence placing our businesses at risk vis-a-vis competitors in our neighbourhoods?...other communities?...other nations?

Sense of Adventure...when you're not working at a Google wannabe

by Rick Baker
On Jan 19, 2016

The question unwritten but embedded below…see yellow highlight

Question: How often does sense of adventure actually make sense in [or fit] the Situation known as working at the office?

Answer: [unless we are a Google wannabe] Not too often. Certainly, in most roles, in most businesses, it cannot be a ongoing daily mindset. In 'normal-productive' office Situations, if we want people to be off on adventures then we need to think in advance and set some boundaries…otherwise, there will much such wandering and who knows where people will end up!

[please...this is not to be construed as an argument against Curiosity]

 

Sense of Urgency - Sense of Adventure

By Rick Baker
On Jul 23, 2014

The topic 'Sense of Urgency' arose during a conversation today. 

Got me thinking...

Sense of Urgency DEF'N: that's wanting to take prompt action when you know the right thing to do.

But, what about when you want to take prompt action and you aren't sure about the right thing to do - you simply have the urge to take action? Doesn't that also qualify as a Sense of Urgency?

No - I don't think simply wanting to take action satisfies the minimum standard associated with a meaningful Sense of Urgency...i.e., when Urgency is meaningful like the type of 'Urgency' Stephen R. Covey taught about in his Urgency-Important lessons.

[And, if we are not talking about that sort of meaningful Urgency, an Urgency that requires us to use Sense, then what kind of Urgency are we talking about?]

2 Related Points:

  1. When we know the right action to take in a given Situation and we feel that action should be initiated sooner rather than later...that's a Sense of Urgency...that's a good thing...that's closely linked with identifying Opportunities and acting quickly to seize advantage. That's the stuff of entrepreneurship
  2. When we want to take prompt action without believing/knowing that action is the right action to be taking...well...that's a Sense of Adventure!

Sense of Adventure is a good thing too. 

Sense of Adventure is a different thing.

Sense of Adventure fits certain Situations.

Sense of Urgency fits other Situations.

Perhaps we need to communicate more clearly when we are driven to take prompt action?

We wouldn't want other people to mistake our Sense of Adventure for a Sense of Urgency...would we?

We wouldn't want other people to mistake our Sense of Urgency for a Sense of Adventure...would we?

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