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Thought Tweet #821

by Rick Baker
On Sep 9, 2013

Thought Tweet #821 Life's too short to beat the laughter out of me!

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Psychologists claim people, in general, laugh less as they age. As toddlers we laugh regularly. After that, we laugh less and less. It's like life beats the laughter out of us. 

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Attitude: Creating Positive Attitude | Beyond Business | Humour | Thought Tweets

Is Self-Confidence a manifestation of Self-Esteem?

by Rick Baker
On Sep 9, 2013

Recently I read a book by a well-established and reputable self-help organization. It taught that self-confidence is an external manifestation of one's self-esteem.

I don't agree.

Or, more accurately, I don't find that sort of education helpful.

Self-confidence is a state of mind that defines how a person thinks and feels about his or her ability to successfully handle a given situation1 [or, at least, survive it]. Presence of self-confidence is a Good Habit2. Lack of it is a Bad Habit3.

Self-esteem is a state of mind that defines a person's regard for self.  It too can be composed of Good Habits or Bad Habits.

Self-esteem doesn't generate self-confidence. If anything, the opposite is more likely to be true. Regardless, it seems to me the important thing to do is concentrate on building self-confidence. To the extent a person succeeds at building self-confidence, that person's self-esteem will increase. The path to building self-confidence is paved with Courage.

 

Footnotes:

  1. A situation is a snapshot of an instant in business life…the people, the ‘props’, and the immediate environment.
  2. A Good Habit is a thing we think or do that takes us towards our goals.
  3. A Bad Habit is a thing we think or do that takes us away from our goals.

Thought Tweet #821.5

by Rick Baker
On Sep 9, 2013

Thought Tweet #821.5 The leader's Values fuel everything; the leader's actions determine if the vehicle is in drive, neutral, reverse, or park. 

 

The Thinking Behind The Tweet

Values are potential energy.

When you take action are they put to constructive use.

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Thought Tweets | Values: Personal Values

Use Fear as a catalyst for Courage

by Rick Baker
On Sep 9, 2013

Fear is a precursor to Courage.

Fear is a necessary precursor to Courage.

Without Fear we could have no Courage.

We know there is an abundance of Fear. We know Fear is capable of lurking at every corner.

Fear is like a wild, untamed, insatiable beast.

Courage – sometimes conscious, sometimes subconscious, and certainly always having strong subconscious roots – is the only trainer able to handle Fear.

We can choose to view Fear as a catalyst for Courage.

We can choose to view Fear as a thing life offers us to enable us to have and build Courage. We can choose to view Fear as a signal, alerting us to do some thinking and take some action to build Courage.

When we choose to view Fear that way, we choose to use Fear as a catalyst to build Courage. We choose to put Fear to constructive use…as our bodies naturally, subconsciously, do when we face real danger.  Put another way, we can choose to mirror the processes of Nature that automatically provide us with fight or flight reactions. Fight or flight fits certain high-risk-of-real-danger Fear-situations. Fight or flight doesn’t fit most everyday Fear-situations. Fight or flight doesn’t fit most workday Fear-situations.

For most workday Fear-situations Courage is a better solution than fight or flight.

So, when Fears visit us during the workday we should not allow them to cause us to do battle [in our heads or externally] and we should not try to ignore them or shrink away from them. Instead, we should use Fears as catalysts for building Courage.

When we use Fears as catalysts for building Courage we enable Courage to drive Confidence. Confidence, molded by Courage, is that comfortable state of mind that is resistant to and resilient in even the most difficult Situations.

Confidence: that's a state of mind we should want to maximize.

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Emotions & Feelings @ Work | Thinking as in Think and Grow Rich | Values: Personal Values

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